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Monday, May 25, 2009

Love vs Sex

Love may seem very convincing.
Till one day, he comes and says, “I wanna have sex with you.”
But she answers, “No.”
He then plays his normal game, “U don’t love me right? You don’t trust me, is it?”
She cries and says, “No dear. I love you the most in this whole wide wo
rld and I’ll do anything for you. Please don’t do this.” And so, she agrees to it, just for him; in the name of the so-called love~

When everything is over, she realizes that he has changed a lot. She sees that he loves her not the same way he used to. She is hurt but cannot do much. So, she offers herself to him which then makes him treats her very well, but only for ONE SINGLE reason: “Can we do it again?”

She has no choice…

The scenario goes on for a few months when he finally says, “I don't think this is going to work out. (I’m seeing someone else/I'm not committed in this relationship/I feel that you deserve someone much better than I do/I feel guilty of doing this to you/blah blah blah). I’m sorry,” and he walks off.

She cries a lot for someone not worth her tears, until the lonely soul becomes weak. For her, her life is ruined and she is changing. She sleeps with every guy she gets into a relationship with, and the same thing happens each time. There is no guy that is willing to accept her as she since she is no longer a virgin. If they want her, it is only for making love and then, she constantly is being dumped by the guys. She is becoming cheaper day by day. Eventually, her pride becomes zero...

NEVER FALL FOR ANY SWEET WORDS! You’re not gonna know how your life is going to turn around if you’d ever make a mistake. Lose your virginity only to your beloved husband. Because he’s the only one that deserves your love, and not a boyfriend who tells you false promises to marry you.

~Edited by iZf. This is as a reminder for girls, including myself. I hope that everyone can remind their friends about this fact. If someone would really want to marry you, then, let him wait. If he can’t wait, find someone else,
WHO'S WORTH IT.


Warning: It might happen to guys too. Sometimes, girls can be the one preying. So, guys, you better watch out ;)

33 comments:

meen said...

saya akn mengingatinya selalu!!:)

The Exquisite Instigator said...

Good girl :) Saya suka kamu dan ezy bersama ;)

kacipcrew said...

takutnye..

The Exquisite Instigator said...

Haha. PD takut ngn sape nie... Jgn risau ek. Kami (abg2 dan kakak2 secohort nie) akan menjaga anda. Haha~

ahmadfadli said...

it's a good reminder for myself also...
..sometimes girls use guys for sex also....
...tsk tsk....

-ahmadfadli.wordpress.com-

p/s-tumpang iklan dik eh :-)

The Exquisite Instigator said...

Haha. Yeah, ure right :)

Iklan? It's okay :) Worth it g ur page :)

Mr_Paan said...

cinta Tuhan, jaga Iman, insyallah...

aMieR_oDEn said...

thanks for the reminder....as long as we concern bout GOD,religion, family n ourselves, we can avoid it...only ur husband/wife deserve for "that"...take care friends...
InsyaAllah..

rhapsody_sufi said...

good reminder.. as a gurl need to take of ourself. can't let the other take advantage.. love your, love your pride, love ur iman..
never love human more than you love Allah.

The Exquisite Instigator said...

Mr_Paan, amier_oden, rhapsody_sufi,

Yup2. What the three of u stated here is exactly true :)

pencari sejati said...

btol 2...
perlu jaga diri kite sendiri dulu...

diri kite sendiri yg akn memilih jalan mane yg kite nk...

bgs n3 nie..
sebar2k an lah kepada teman2 lain

The Exquisite Instigator said...

yup2 :) Jaga diri ye :P

mR SyamEL said...

truly love would never ask 4 illegal sex...
ahahaha...
playable love might be...

The Exquisite Instigator said...

Haha. That's so true :)

reenkyra said...

good 1 =)

[z@ck] said...

minta dijauhkan dari segala bentuk kemaksiatan..
amin...

r a d h i o said...

kawen cepat2 untuk selamat dari segala kemungkaran...

boll said...

huh...if this can happen to guys...
i wonder if aza can do this to me...hahahaha =)

athirah mohamed~ said...

well,

it's not easy to be the perempuan melayu terakhir.

mesti cepat tergoda kan?

ekeke.

sudah. sudah.
mengarut sungguh.

=D

arif_asan said...

Say no 2 premarital sex!!!!
Dnt destry the beautiful of love with a cheap sex....
(Ya Allah, jauhkn aku dr kesesatan yg nyata...)

aMieR_oDEn said...

hidup itu indah dah berwarna-warni, jangan dicemari dengan debu dan rona berduri,jangan sekali diserah mahkota kebanggaan diri....

namun serahlah pada yang hakiki, teman hidup sehidup semati; suami/isteri, teman pernyeri menuju syurgawi... ;oP

anak pak man said...

so, moral of the story is: boys, beware of aza! haha
no lah, kidding only..

very true..
The highest love should be your love for Allah SWT.

may all of us disimpang dari segala maksiat dan fitnah..
Amin~

aMieR_oDEn said...

hai...
i got to know somethin...nt from him, but some other source...

be patient, be strong!
be da hero, i know u're...

Si_KuduS™ said...

YEAH..... proud to be MAN... nothing to lose..... kah kah kah---.(nada pervert looking for a white innocent chick)

The Exquisite Instigator said...

Mike: Thanx :)

Zack: Doa utk semua :)

Radhio: Tp klu nk kawen, kne de duit. Klu xde, xley gak :(

Hilmi: Carik psl la u. Kt RECSAM oso same. Haih >:P

Tret: Heh. Tu r. Nsb bek kite x mudah tergoda ngn bnde2 cmnie kn. Bhgie je idop ;D

arif_asan: I support u!

Amir: Fuh, ayat mantap, maksud mendalam :D

Anuar: U backup hilmi tu apsal... :(

Amir: Erm, thanx :( Haih~

Si_Kudus: Chaish! Jht gle bnyinye :P

elli(adek yg plg disayangilahhh)) said...

shesh..nana suro cmmnt smthing(die tgh dok sblah ni.(memakse))..heh:)

The Exquisite Instigator said...

Adek mmg hampeh!

Fantasy to Reality said...

totally agree bout dont do IT b4 u got married~

The Exquisite Instigator said...

;) Thanx. We're on the same side here :D

penaberkala said...

klaula all girls think like u..
herm,nice reminder to all girls out there..
to all muslimah jadilah mawar berduri!protect ur self always

The Exquisite Instigator said...

Thanx a lot for dropping by~

chichi said...

its sad that not many girls realize this before doing it kan :(

i hate this type of guys who only want one thing :@

The Exquisite Instigator said...

sgt~!

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